Insightful Questions.yml for the Family vs. Work dilemma – which variant is the best?
GTP-4-1106-preview (TURBO)
1. How can the wife use what she knows from past jobs to feel more confident and do well in the new job?
2. What little things can the wife do to start this new job that will help her become more confident and take charge, but still be careful?
3. Does the wife have people who can help and support her as she goes back to work?
4. Can the wife try the job for a short time or work fewer hours at first to see if it’s a good fit without too much stress?
5. What worries does the wife have about balancing work and home life, and how can she deal with them before they become a problem?
6. How much money does the family need to be okay, and does this job fit with that? Can they make a backup plan for money problems?
7. What parts of herself might the wife need to change to fit into her new job role?
8. What motivates the wife to go back to work, and how can this reason help her with the challenges she might face?
9. How can you grow by taking this chance but still keep things stable for your family?
10. What does the wife hope to gain from this job, and is it worth the difficulties she might face?
11. How can you make sure that your job makes your life better instead of worse?
12. Have you thought about how this job could make your wife feel happier and better about herself?
13. Are you ready to help make things work for everyone in the family, not just look at the bad things that could happen?
14. What can you do to help with your worries and also support what your wife wants to do?
15. How have other people’s expectations affected your view of work and being a mother, and how can you change these roles to fit what you want?
16. What are the different futures you could have based on your choices, and how do these choices match what you believe and want to achieve?
17. What does taking a risk mean to you in this situation, and how could it make your life better?
GTP 4.0
1. Do you have people who can help you with home duties when you’re at work?
2. How will you divide your time between work and home?
3. Are you ready for how much energy work might take? Have you thought about how to keep your energy up, like regular exercise, eating well, and getting enough sleep?
4. What simple actions can she do to feel more confident about joining the team?
5. Do you feel you can do the job well? Have you thought about getting more training or advice to feel more confident?
6. How can she keep a good balance between being confident and making decisions, to avoid being unsure or too confident?
7. Have you thought about how a changeable income might affect your money situation? Do you have other money coming in or savings you can use?
8. Are you happy with how things are now?
9. Have you taken the time to truly understand what you want and what makes you happy?
10. What is stopping you from taking the first step and how can you overcome it?
11. Are you letting fear stop you from growing and being independent?
12. Are past experiences or fears holding you back from moving forward?
13. How can you grow and evolve in your new role as a working woman?
14. How do your choices reflect your values and what you truly want in life?
15. What is your purpose that will drive you to succeed in your work?
HOW IT WORKS
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